I help people feeling stuck, stagnant or stressed
who yearn for more purpose and satisfaction in their lives
to disentangle from their present culture and realign to their true nature.
I provide support, in accord with that true nature’s vision,
so that they begin navigating their own way toward a life
filled with purpose, freedom, and joy.
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As you navigate through life, you may sometimes find yourself lost and struggling to find the right path.
Waves of change are flooding today’s world, and the old roads to success and fulfillment seem to be washing away under our feet.
At this point, you may seek guidance, but where do you look?
I suggest you look toward your own True Nature- also known by such names as your Inner Compass, North Star, and Unique Genius. It is your essential self that carries a sense of purpose and yearns to feel alive and free.
Unfortunately, True Natures are often at odds with the conformist culture. Ingrained conditioning, beliefs, and habits may be blinding you and leading you away from the life you intend to have.
As a coach, I assist in seeing through your present circumstances to align with the direction you intend to go.
A Coach assists through deep listening and powerful questioning, and exploring tools that help evoke and integrate new awarenesses, insight, or learning into your worldview and behaviors, in order to inspire your creative, problem-solving mind.
You develop the trust that not only can you ride the waves of change, but that you thrive by attuning to the intelligent signals from your body to find your way into your right life.
Your heart, mind, and body will begin speaking together, and you’ll find yourself In Aligned Movement for each step on your unique path.
Frequently Asked Questions:
What is a Life Coach?
A life coach is a type of wellness professional who helps people make progress in their lives in order to attain greater fulfillment.
Who is it for?
- Anyone feeling stuck in areas of their life
- Anyone yearning to handle change more effectively
- Anyone yearning to manifest their ideal life
- Anyone desiring to let go of troubles and suffering in order to find more joy and peace
- Anyone struggling to make upcoming difficult decisions
- Anyone longing to be healthier in their body
- Anyone wishing to move better both in body and life
How is it done?
A session may consist of:
- Having a conversation to define or refine the objective for working together.
- Working together to define what you need to address or resolve in order to achieve what you want to accomplish.
- Exploring tools that help evoke and integrate new awarenesses, insight, or learning into your worldview and behaviors.
- Partnering in developing a plan to move forward.
- Identifying action steps, habits, and practices that can be taken given the new possibilities and perspectives we may have uncovered.
What is the difference between Life Coaching and Therapy?
Some aspects of therapy and coaching overlap, however it’s helpful to think of the relationship between the two as similar to the relationship between a doctor and a personal trainer:
Doctors have extensive education, training and practice that makes them qualified to assist those with sickness, disease, and injury to make them well. Whereas a personal trainer can both help someone get out of dysfunctional movement patterns into better ones so that they avoid injury as well as guiding and working as a support system to help that person achieve their goals for physical health.
Likewise, a therapist also has extensive education, training and practice that qualify them to assist those with forms of mental dysfunction. Whereas a life coach works with those who are already in a relative state of wellness with the intention of helping to optimize their life experience. This may include processes such as shifting dysfunctional thought patterns, uncovering limiting beliefs, and finding a clearer vision for the future as well as developing a plan of actionable steps toward greater fulfillment. In short, Doctors and Therapists are equipped to bring someone back from dysfunction and sickness toward wellness, and trainers and coaches are equipped to guide people from relative wellness toward greater potential.
Just as, in some cases, you could work together with both your doctor and personal trainer, it is also possible to work with both a mental health professional as well as a life coach.
Rest assured, if you are uncertain from whom you should be seeking help, or if I feel you may be better assisted by another type of coach or mental health professional, I would be happy to help refer you to someone who can meet your needs.
How are Movement Coaching and Life Coaching Related?
In the pursuit of greater fulfillment in life, movement coaching and life coaching can be closely intertwined:
Our cultural conditioning, lifestyle, habits, beliefs and thought processes can all affect how we move in our body- those may be addressed through life coaching. Conversely, how we are moving in our body may be affecting our thoughts, feelings and beliefs about both ourselves and the world, as well as influencing our lifestyle, habits and whether or not we move toward achieving our goals. In this case, movement coaching can help guide you in a better direction. Also, movement itself helps people feel more energy and enthusiasm which in turn may inspire positive decisions and actions toward greater fulfillment in life. If moving in your body is causing pain, frustration, and suffering, we may use a combination of both life coaching and movement coaching.
Through Life coaching we can:
- Reevaluate how you approach movement
- Explore what ways of moving actually bring you joy
- Dissolve limiting beliefs on what movement & exercise “should” be
- Assess if shifts in lifestyle habits and your everyday environment could lead to better movement and quality of life.
- Find ways to decrease stress in your life and increase the relaxation response (High levels of sympathetic arousal can actually make you more prone to feeling pain. As stress decreases and the parasympathetic nervous system takes over, you may find your pain subsides and moving becomes more enjoyable.).
Through Movement coaching we can:
- Assess your alignment and determine where you are overusing or underusing parts of your body so that we can develop a program to bring a better balance of overall use and muscle activity which will decrease the wear and tear on the parts of you that are currently experiencing pain.
- Develop a movement lifestyle that helps you move better and move more. In both Movement and Life coaching my intention is to help you to let go of troubles and suffering in order to uncover more joy, peace, and enthusiasm for what you wish to be and do in life.
One difference between Movement and Life coaching is that in movement coaching, I offer my expertise and experience in principles of the body to direct you toward moving better and living a more movement rich lifestyle; and with life coaching the process is focused on bringing forth your own knowing as the expert on your life.
There is a third way…
There is a realm of metaphor where Life and Movement reflect upon each other like mirrors. Sometimes it is more fruitful to allow the creative mind to make connections by looking, not directly at the issue or problem with which you’re struggling, but instead, slightly askance at something seemingly unrelated. Then, we can ask “How is this like that?” and sometimes answers you never knew were there will become apparent. In this way, if there is a life issue, we can look to the body: moving, observing, exploring and then review with metaphor how your body may be giving answers to your life’s questions. Likewise, if there’s a movement/body struggle, we may look to issues in our lives and how we “move” through them. Often, it’s possible our knowing and way of living will present a metaphor to answer the issues with our body. It’s a bit magical, and a bit analytical at the same time, but by bringing both those sides of ourselves together, we learn to Wayfind toward our right life.
All the hours of exploration and wondering have come together in this beautiful place and time…So thankful for your strength and energy that has restored mine…
I am deeply grateful for your companionship on this journey. I look forward to pondering questions and happily anticipate each day now rather than dreading them. You've been a great gift.
— Vicki M.